What’s Really Behind 11+ Success? (Hint: It’s Not Just Tutoring)
“How did Ezra get into Harrow?”
It’s a question I get asked a lot.
And of course, there was structure. There was strategy. There was tutoring.
But if I’m being honest, none of that would have mattered without the emotional work we did behind the scenes.
In 2020, when Ezra was struggling with confidence and big emotions, I knew something had to shift.
That’s when I found Natalie Costa — and her 1:1 coaching became the foundation for what I now recognise as one of the most powerful investments we made.
We only worked with her for 6 months. But the tools she gave Ezra?
They’ve stayed with him for life.
Tools to regulate his emotions.
To bounce back from setbacks.
To enter high-pressure environments calm, steady and self-assured.
So when Natalie told me she was launching a brand new programme for families preparing for the 11+, I knew I had to share it with you.
💡 Introducing: Mind Mastery for a Confident 11+
A 4-week emotional prep accelerator for parents and children navigating the 11+ journey.
Because let’s be honest:
You’ve got the tutors.
You’ve printed the past papers.
But has anyone helped your child with how they feel walking into that exam room?
How they recover from a mistake? How they stay calm under pressure? Because the emotional work is foundational.
That’s what this programme is for.
✅ Here’s what you and your child get:
Two 45-minute coaching calls with Natalie to create a tailored emotional strategy
Six expert-led video sessions for your child — filled with tools to build emotional resilience, confidence and calm
Practical techniques to help them stay present and bounce back in real time
And most importantly? A child who feels secure in themselves, regardless of the result.
As a parent, it can feel like a constant battle between wanting to push for success and protect their wellbeing.
This is the bridge between both.
And honestly? I wish every parent preparing for the 11+ knew this was available. Because I know first hand the difference it makes.
🌱 Ezra didn’t just walk into his assessments ready — he walked in grounded.
He knew how to regulate his nerves, reset after tough moments, and stay steady under pressure.
That emotional foundation was everything.
🗓️ Enrolment closes Saturday 31st May.
The programme starts Monday 2nd June and is limited to just 10 families.
🔗 Click here to secure your spot with Natalie.
(Yes, this is an affiliate link — and yes, I’d recommend this with or without one.)
If you’re preparing your child for the 11+ this year — I cannot encourage you enough to support both their academics and their emotions. It’s the missing piece too many overlook.
With love and insight,
Charlotte x
